4 proven ways to counter peer pressure
Usman Afzal
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Friday July 12, 2024
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It's basic human nature to seek approval and acceptance from those around them. However, ultimately, each of us is accountable for our successes and failures. When faced with peer pressure to engage in actions or accept beliefs contradicting Islamic values, it's important to remain steadfast and resist that pressure.
Easier said than done, right?
Fortunately, we have put together 4 proven practical ways to counter peer pressure in the Western world
1. Develop a strong mindset through exercise
Exercise and meditate daily for 30 minutes to 1 hour. This helps release dopamine and serotonin in your body that lower anxiety, improve mood, boost self-confidence, and increase your attention span by 67%. These positive effects will reduce your vulnerability to peer pressure.
2. Learn how to say no by practicing preventative teaching
Preventative teaching is a skill to discipline yourself by responding or reacting to different situations to avoid undesirable behavior. This will help you in situations where you have to make difficult choices.
3. Consciously reminding yourself what matters
Ultimately, the approval of Allah and His Messenger is what you are working towards so it is very important to keep this bigger picture in mind while going through your daily routine. Any action that you think might earn His anger should be avoided no matter if your peers are pushing you to do it.
4. Associating yourself with like-minded people
It is important to surround yourself with people of similar mindsets; who understand you as a person and seek their support in difficult times. It will directly cater to the inherent sense of belonging and not make you feel odd.
If you want to know about these practical tips in more detail, explore our course “How to Raise Your Kids in the Western World” featuring Shaykh Ibad Wali, a renowned expert in Islamic education and youth development.
Born and raised in the West himself, Shaykh Ibad uses practical techniques and examples to help your kids effectively counter issues like peer pressure.
